A perfectly lovely day.
How did that happen?
Last week (and the week before that too actually) got completely out of my control. Although I managed to stay on top of my to-do list and handle all the kinks that got thrown in, there wasn’t much time for things like goofing off, or picture taking or blogging……. I could sit here and list what’s kept me busy, but it’s not very interesting. Being PTO secretary, a Girl Scout Leader and a soccer mom took up most of my time, which then leads to me to navel gaze and wonder how the heck that happened to me. I swore I was never ever getting involved in the PTO….and here I am…..And soccer. I’ve whined a few times on here about how I really can’t stand soccer. How I refuse to be a so-called soccer mom and yet I hear I’m actually one of the worst ones out there. I comfort myself with the fact that at least I don’t drive a mini-van.
I blame motherhood for all of these developments in my life. And a husband who says, “We are those sort of parents.”. Sigh. What can you do? Not be that sort of person? I don’t know how, it’s hard wired into me. I see something that needs to be done and I work to make sure it gets done, even if that means doing it myself. That’s at least my excuse for PTO and Girl Scouts. Soccer? Well, Edie loves it. So I just grin and bear it. And try to not let her know how much I don’t like it. Clearly, I’m pulling it off.
Already this week doesn’t look quite so busy. For starters, Edie is sick again. Her strep test at the doctor’s was negative this morning, but you can look at her and tell she doesn’t feel good. And it’s my birthday, so I’ve already decided things we’re not doing because we need to have more fun instead.
And if it’s not fun, I really don’t think we should do it. Sure, there are things you have to do that aren’t always fun (cleaning bathrooms), but you can always find a way to make it fun, yes? So, this week, we are going to have more fun. Just for kicks, I commissioned myself a custom crown from Royal Revolution. I think I’ll wear it while I clean the house today…. That will make it fun, yes?
Sunday Drive.
Saving Greenleaf Park.
SWAP!!!
If you know me at all, you know I have a tendency to can or freeze everything in sight. You know I’m pretty devoted to knowing where our food comes from. When I first heard about these food swaps going on around the country, I thought, oh cool. Someone should organize one here, because I’d like to check one out. And then my friend Vikki emailed me and said WE should it.
That does make sense. I mean, I do have a tendency do that sort of thing too. Like start a knitting group, a girl scout troop for my daughter and her friends, the list could go on…..
So, we got together and brainstormed where to have this thing. I talked to a few folks and found a space for us to use, The Garage, and we came up with a name, Cville Swaps. We have a Facebook Page and I’ve created a page on this blog for it. (See it up there across the top? I’m pretty impressed with myself for figuring that out.). We plan on holding our first event on Sunday, November 13, from 2-4 pm. Everyone is invited, so if you are in the area and interested, please let us know!
All manner of items that you make, grow and forage for are acceptable to swap. The lists I’ve read around the web are pretty cool. I might borrow Edie’s body scrub recipe and make some of that to swap. I’m also thinking some of my watermelon rind pickles would be a good swap. I’ve thought about bringing some Amish Friendship Bread starter too. Ever since I found out I could freeze it and always have it on hand and seen all those recipes on their website, I’ve been a happy girl. I’ve made the orange cranberry muffins, the triple chocolate muffins, the double chocolate muffins, and the pumpkin spice ones. Mmm. Oh, sorry. I’ve wandered off topic….
So, Sunday, November 13. See you there?
Update – I created a blog just for the swap. I’ll have some things about it on here as well, but look on the Cville Swaps blog for more updates.
Better than it looks.
Girl Power.
I’ve had my Girl Scout troop working on a small business badge in which they’ve learned about starting a business. This week we had a panel of guest speakers, Martha Stafford of The Charlottesville Cooking School, Robyn Jackson of The Civility School and Alana Woerpel of Alana’s Interior Decoration come talk to the girls about their experiences in being self employed. Most of the girls already know them as mothers of friends and classmates, but I think they saw them in a new light at our roundtable discussion. It was a great meeting and it wasn’t until halfway through that at least one of the girls (mine of course), realized my ulterior motive in working on this badge. (I’m not sure anyone minded though.) They had empowering things to say to the girls, telling them that by nature, women multi-task and so therefore are perfectly suited to running their own business, among other things. They all started by working from home, and in this, I realized I have an advantage in Pat working from home most days. The three of them talked about how when you work from home, you tend to miss officemates to bounce ideas off of (and just chat with!). While being home with your significant other all day every day can have it’s challenges, there are some pluses, and we certainly bounce ideas off each other. Poor guy has to taste test everything for me and make sure I put enough salt in. (I always seem to forget the salt.)
My troop can at times, be a wild pack, but I have to say, they sat there and listened for the better part of an hour, with their fidgeting kept to a minimum. If you had seen them just a few weeks ago, you’d understand what a feat this is. Last year Mrs. Jackson helped us earn our Manners badge, so I credit her presence with their good behavior. She really rubs off on them. (Don’t you want to come help with my troop every other week Robyn?) I got great feedback from the moms who dropped in for the meeting, as well as moms that let me know afterwards how much the girls got out of our working on that badge. Some of the girls even let me know, they are ready to take that knowledge and make it happen – can’t we please start our businesses? I know if I let them loose, they will do it too. I’ve not yet told them the timing of the food drive I’ve committed them to, which is the same time one of them wants to do a market, over the holidays. I somehow suspect some of them might actually be able to do both, but I may drive their parents crazy in the process…. a compromise may be in order, with their market to be in the spring perhaps?
I love my girl scouts. Some weeks, yes, I cannot wait to get home and have a glass of wine and decompress from our meetings (There was the time that not only did I forget to drop someone at their house, but I neglected to even shut my car door, in my rush to get home and have a nice glass of wine.) Some weeks I’m pretty sure none of them regard a word that comes out of my mouth. But then we have weeks like this past one, where they hug me goodbye and let me know how much I’ve inspired them. And it makes all the other weeks worth it.
Adventures of the local sort.
Today I headed out to Virginia Wineworks for a tour, in the name of research for my monthly column, Beneath the Cork for In the Kitchen Magazine. (The October issue is up – you should definitely go check it out!). Philip Stafford was kind enough to spend some time with me, showing me around. I got to see some of their brand spanking new packaging equipment and definitely got inspired for more than a few articles to come. Thank you Philip for taking time for me today. If you have the chance to go hang out at a winery during harvest, I highly recommend it. I don’t want to give too much away from the articles I plan on writing from today’s visit, but they are doing some really great stuff for the entire Virginia wine industry down there at Virginia Wineworks. It shouldn’t surprise anyone that I love to drink local as much as I love to eat local. Should I ever get inspired to plant my own grapes, I am definitely taking them to those guys to turn into some tasty wine.
Well Hello Sun!
The sun made an appearance today and what a welcome sight it was. And finally, the air isn’t grossly humid!
Someone said to me a few months back that they adored old, musty southern houses. As do I, except when I have to live in one the month of September. Our house, like many others in this neighborhood, doesn’t have central AC. We find we only wish we had it a few days in July and then again in September, when the muggies really set in. This month, it has been grey and muggy since Labor Day. We’ve had I can’t even remember how many inches of rain this month, but for the last few weeks, we haven’t gotten anything significant. It’s just been foggy every morning, grey all day and oh, so humid. We’ve had to close the house up and run the window units we use during those July days just to keep the musty smell at bay. Thankfully, everyone I know says their house smells musty these days, so I feel slightly better about things.
Despite this, I’m pretty sure our dining room is ground zero for odor and what I call ‘mildew dust’. It gets absolutely no natural light and has no air circulation, so the dust starts turning a bit blue and growing things this time of year. We inherited my grandparent’s dining room furniture – and they were smokers, and we spent years getting the smell and the stains out of the furniture. Every September, the dining room really starts to exhibit a certain odor that isn’t smoky, but isn’t entirely musty either. Sunday morning I woke up and realized I couldn’t take the smell anymore, so I did my annual scrub down – where I wipe all the furniture down, everything gets moved and not only do I vacuum, but I break out the bleach, and use it to wipe down the baseboards. This year I even pulled all my linens out – tablecloths, placemats, napkins, etc, etc – and washed them. I have tried using baking soda and vinegar to absorb odors and they help, but not enough. Recently I read that leaving coffee grinds out helps – so I’m trying that. It’s slightly working. This year has definitely been worse than usual. Pat & I have been tag teaming scrubbing the house down – having done Edie’s room while she was at camp, we were quite relieved to discover the smell developing over the weekend in her room was merely a pair of wet soccer socks thrown in her laundry basket, left to steep.
This morning the fog seemed especially thick, and with the forecast calling for more showers, I really started to feel like this weather was never going to lift. Worse, I noticed the smell coming back. The smell I thought we’d scrubbed and laundered out…….and then, suddenly, the sun came out. And stayed out all afternoon. I noticed the air outside was cool AND dry. So I opened the house up and let in fresh air, first time in weeks. And suddenly, the house smells….normal again.
Yay. Thank you sun.
















